I have the Tantive IV; here is how I believe it is meant to work.
Case 1: I reveal my Command Dial and choose to use it to full effect so the special ability of the Tantive IV is not invoked. Result: Tantive IV has expended the Command Dial and gains no token.
Case 2: I reveal my Command Dial and choose to trade it in receive a Command Token which I keep on the Tantive IV. Again the special ability of the Tantive IV is not invoked. Result: Tantive IV gains a Command Token.
Case 3: I reveal my Command Dial and choose to trade it in receive a Command Token. Before I receive the Command Token I invoke the special ability and pass the token on to another friendly ship within range. However I chose to trade in the Command Dial to get the token so the Command Dial is still expended. Result: Tantive IV gains no benefits from the Command Dial and receives no token since it was passed to another ship.
Does this logic sound right to you?