Okay, from what I can tell from the timing structure, I don't think it's possible to rez Blacklist in such a way that you can surprise a runner with a piece of ice and also prevent recursion to help against that ice.
2.1 only allows paid abilities, not rez, so it can't be there.
2.3 allows rez, but it happens after the ice is rezzed. Since it's the runner's turn they will have priority for the activation window.
Is that correct?