1. Spending 100 bucks on an item I can get for 70 is charity. Just because I get something I like doesn't change it. You can go give to nepal right now on bungie's site and get a tshirt. It's still charity. I don't say this with intent to demean the hard working LGS clerks and owners out there, who definetely provide a valuable service to the community and work hard for their living. But if I'm taking money out of my pocket to help you out, it's charity. If it helps, I do believe in giving to charity.
I guess that you have a rather broad definition of charity/donations that help you feel better about yourself. Since charity is tax deductible, do you declare it on your taxes? Last I checked FLGSs weren't 501©(3)s. Neither are the homeless people you'd give a dollar to, but they don't sell you anything in return.
2. The MSRP that most stores sell at is waaaaaay above cost. He could have cut into his margin a little for the sale if he wanted/thought to. He couls have said something like, "It's gonna cost you 70 plus whatever this guy wants for using his prime acct and you need to wait, I'll give it to you for 80 right now".
The MSRP is above the cost that (s)he pays FFG. But then there's the rent, the wages, the utilities, etc. that also need to come out of that MSRP-cost. Also, there's creating expectations. If (s)he says "I'll sell it to you for $70 now", then that customer is going to pretty much expect a 30% discount on everything, as will everyone in earshot.
I have zero respect for turning consumer awareness into an ethics discussion. There is absolutely nothing unethical about a consumer researching the product and making choices based on the best pricing available. How completely consumed in the bubble of rich white privilege do you have to be to think that some absurd sense of honour and loyalty should come before the consumer's monthly family budget. To suggest that a consumer is being unethical for making intelligent choices to ensure their monthly family budget doesn't break because of a stupid little hobby borders on the sociopathic, in my honest and earnest opinion.
Come on Bubbles, that's reducing the discussion to the absurd. Nobody on the support-your-FLGS side of the discussion here is suggesting that people should be choosing between the FLGS and their child's next meal. We're talking about the choice between the FLGS as the next cup of coffee from Starbucks.
We're also talking about a social norm of supporting the people who give you and us a place to play. Calling us sociopathic for suggesting this sounds rather ironic.
1 part hyperbole, 1 part reality of being a single mom.
I'm not in favour of going to weekly events at a store and never buying things from it.
I'm not in favour of being pressured to buy from LGS despite significantly higher prices on the premise that I've been a naughty girl if I don't do it.
If each of us were to buy 25% of our expansions at the FLGS but actively and aggressively participate in and promote the advertising and growth of your FLGS their sales would increase.
If a person elects to buy 100% at the FLGS but does absolutely nothing to promote the events they attend, brings no one else into the community, and even has a personality that encourages others to avoid the FLGS, then you have a much greater problem and that will ultimately lead to much lower sales.
There is an in between, sure. I know that's what people are going to say - but you shouldn't strive to be medium, you should strive to grande.
In conclusion: buy some but not all of your x-wing or armada or whatever from your FLGS but actively participate in the aggressive expansion of the hobby at your FLGS and the place will get more money than if you were a sack of potatoes but all your money went to them.
Edited by bubblepopmei