This is not a black or white issue, region, general budget and spousal understanding are key factors. Take my situation, my wife would prefer I get the best deal possible, so I generally go with online. I have 2 game stores within easy walking distance, one is pretty much Magic only and the other one (which is one I try to play at as it is the closest) is unreliable and has "struck out" with me 3 times. There is a store 15 minutes away which I have ordered half of my armada wave one stuff from, to see how well things go, I go there probably once or twice a month as it isn't as close and doesn't have the people I am used to playing with. I mostly buy online because my wife approves, my wallet hurts less, I can get what when I want it and don't have to deal with some of "game store drama" that is rampant in this area.
Seven years ago, different story. I lived about 45 minutes north of here, wasn't married and as a consequence had more disposable income. I spent around $400 a month on games, and frequented a game store that treated me very well.
I feel that a person should not feel judged for doing one or the other and shouldn't have to spell out their reasoning. I feel like some people are trying to make the situation into selfish decision vs. social conscious decision and it is just not that cut and dry. Well that is just my two cents and take it as you like.
