I had a situation regarding Guri and her ability which grants a focus token if within range 1 of an enemy ship at the start of the firing phase.
We had all moved, agreed that all actions were taken and then, whilst I was reaching for my focus token, my opponent had rolled his PS9 Soontir Fel attack dice against Guri.
Now, the issue is this: He chose to shoot Guri because she had no tokens (apart from a TL), however she WOULD have had a token if my opponent had allowed me to put one next to her. I explained that she would of had a token as it is at the start of the phase but then I was hit with the "missed opportunity" rule. I was a little miffed as it was actually my opponent which caused me to miss my opportunity. TO was called, couldn't make a decision because it was a he said, I said situation and the opportunity was missed. Sucks.
After the attack and the stubborn nature of my opponent, I successfully evaded and shot another target, luckily I didn't need the focus anyway but after that it kind of ruined the game. I started putting the focus token on after I had done my action on Guri instead of at the start of the phase to which this then got called on. Started an argument and then when I managed to win, he stormed off.
Confronted the guy afterwards and asked why he kept forcing me to miss opportunities and would he do the same to someone using Roark for example, he said he wasn't at fault and I should have thrown the token down as soon as Soontir had finished.
Hmm yeah tourney rules specifically mention not rushing your opponent with the intention of forcing a missed opportunity.
Seems like you got unlucky with your opponent there. I have been quite fortunate in that all of the tourneys I have been to have been quite relaxed even at the top tables.