That's pretty much 100% where I am. Personally, I'd err on the side of giving my opponent a break, but I wouldn't hold it against anyone who doesn't feel the same way. And you can be bloody sure that if I can fly your ship off the board in a tournament game I'm going to do it. I'll probably apologise (because, you know, English), I won't gloat or be a ******, but I'll do it.
I would apologize too, because, you know, Canadian. ![]()
Games like this are always a meeting of two people, and if one player wants a cut throat competitive game and the other wants a beer-and-pretzels narrative game, then either both players need to compromise or both players are going to walk away from the table unhappy.
That's what it boils down to, player expectations. What do you expect when you enter a tournament? Just a social meeting without any care of the final standing or a test of skills to know which one of you is the best of the day? You can enter for either reason, but you should not expect everyone to play for the same reason as you. As long as you are not disrespectful and play by the rules (without trying to abuse them), there is nothing wrong with how you play the game.
Regarding capitalizing on your opponent mistakes and continuing with sports analogy ( sorry, that's the only other competitive setting I know, I don't play Magic or WH): In hockey (because, you know, Canadian), if the goalie fall down, should the player wait for him to stand back up before shooting? Of course not. Take your chance and shoot. Capitalize on his error. There is nothing wrong and unsportmanship about it. Same way as in X-Wing, in a tournament setting, if your opponent pick a red maneuver while stressed and you have the chance to move his ship out of the game, why shouldn't you not take it? What is unsportmanship about it? He fell and you shoot.
