Sethis, you voiced some very interesting questions.
I played competitive sports through college so come from a place of "I enjoy the game by winning the game". I would never cheat or gloat when I win and try not to mope too much when I lose but I definitely play to win. If I win I enjoy the game, if I lose I try to figure out how I can play better or where I screwed up. Quite honestly I can't really say I've ever "enjoyed" a game where I lost. I guess I would say I enjoy the opportunity to become a better player with a loss but not the losing. People enjoy the game in different ways and no one is right or wrong.
I would never have played with this strategy in a casual game. As I said it was pretty boring but to me securing the victory for the league was more important than having the most exciting game. As others have pointed out my opponent could have broken ranks and engaged me with a looser formation but chose not to. I think this was the source of my annoyance as it takes two to tango.
BTW, the Sun Tzu quotes are amazing. It blows my mind that this stuff is still as true as when it was written, what?, 1000 years ago.
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