second one is more controverial... we allow ships to remain in play if the start and end of the move stays on table even if the arc traveled goes off table... but it does cause stress.
Uh... that's the tournament rule, but without the stress.
yeah and we felt it merrited stress
Because reasons?
*shrug*
That's the beauty of home games. You can play however you and your friend wants. That said, those house rules etc... shouldn't have any impact on the vast majority of discussions on this board. House rules are a.) not as clearly playtested b.) not codified even within one meta and c.) not universal.
Certain builds are already stigmatized you don't bring a fat Han list to a friendly game without fair warning same goes for the phantom.
Endlessly facing the same list may be something you have to do but I don't see many people saying it's a fun thing to do.
When there's no stakes your free to use any wacky build you like and laugh about it when it dies horribly, in competitive play there are simply boxes you must tick to stand a chance.
Winning is fun but it's not everything to everyone.
But to imply that competitive players don't want "fun" is very disingenuous. They want fun, have a certain idea of fun, and enjoy playing that way with other like minded individuals. That one doesn't like it is irrelevant. Insisting that "fun" players don't bring "Fat Han" is as non-sensical as insisting that all players must bring "Fat Han."