That sounds a lot like me too. I collect, but since every single player at my LGS plays meta lists in causal games....it's pretty much worn the community down to the same 8 players who play in the store tournaments. No one else plays. At all.
THAT is what is sad to me. The community was much, much larger before this happened, but people walked away once they had to bring tournament level lists to the Thursday game night. For fun. So the 8 players that see that type of play as fun won out, and effectively turned the game into their little fiefdom. I honestly do not expect to ever get a truly casual game in ever again. When I mention wanting to play to others, they basically say "nope. I'd rather play something else." So we end up with board games usually. I spent good money on this stuff. I really did want to enjoy it. I hear that there were a lot of X-Wing players in my current community, but I have yet to meet them.
I was glad to see the OP got some constructive criticism as opposed to more outright trollery.....which still happened.