I sympathize with you DeepEyes.
However... And this is just for myself and accounts of people I have spoken with personally... As I see the myriad of emotions that the stronger (as opposed to casual) defenders of the EU-Now-Legends seem to be experiencing (ranging from bummed through disappointment all the way to to rage) I am relieved that I never took it all that seriously as "Star Wars" canon (such as any fictional canon can be taken seriously).
When it came to it, Lucasfilm didn't defend the EU-Now-Legends and at least accepted letting it all be brushed aside.
Now, that said, I absolutely will always encourage people to love the stories they love and tell the stories they want to tell in RPGs. However, in a forum such as this, we all sort of have to agree upon a shared definition of the subject matter so we can effectively communicate our ideas on the topic.
And (for want of a less crass way to phrase it) the EU-Now-Legends "lost". It's impact is now "in question", at best, and thus... fairly or unfairly... it has become somewhat marginalized in many cases.
In response, perhaps I and those with similar views (I have been referring to the whole of the EU as "high-end fan fiction" for many years) could be more gracious about the whole affair. Things we dismissed previously could very well still become canon, some day.