I think this is a non issue with this game. Boys and girls are different and like different things. I don't know why people can't accept that.
I think the reason behind this particular problem is that "Men and women are different" or "White and black people are different" or other similar reasonings have been misused before now as justifications for discrimination. As a result a fair chunk of society have now swung too far in the opposite direction and now think even acknowledging any differences between the genders is sexism.
I suspect that part of the problem also lies in how bad most people are in understanding statistics. If we take for example the studies that have suggested that on average males have better spatial awareness (we won't argue whether or not they're true for the moment, but for the sake of example let's give them the benefit of the doubt):
- Some people have taken this to mean that all men are better than all women at tasks that require spatial awareness (and therefore claim that women can't drive, etc.)
- Some people claim that such studies are sexist, and that men and women can't possibly be any different from each other in such a way.
- Someone with a grasp of statistics would understand that if these studies are true, all it would mean is that the "average man" has better spatial awareness than possibly 51% of women, that the "average woman" could still have better spatial awareness than 49% of men, and that at the end of the day if a woman is still a better driver than a man they should be recognised as such.
Relating this to the game, it may be that less women are interested in this style of game than is the case with men. My answer to that is that there will still be plenty of women who are interested - as far as I'm concerned they're just as welcome to play the game as any guy, I'll try to beat them just as hard as I would any male opponent, and I'll accept my ass-whoopings off them just as graciously as I would from any male opponent.
Yes, agreed.
...with one exception - that being your analogy to the spatial awareness. I think with the spatial awareness you're talking about an aspect of nature, something which is much less malleable (but not totally unmalleable) than culture is.
I think this is a non issue with this game. Boys and girls are different and like different things. I don't know why people can't accept that.
Because it's just not that easy. 'What boys want' and 'what girls want' is not fixed. It's changing. I don't know why you can't accept that.
If this is the case the this is a non issue. People are going to do the things that they want to.
I have 4 kids of my own and coached, mentored, and cared for hundreds of other kids over the last 25 years. I'm sorry but boys and girls aren't that different now than when I was a kid. At least not as different as as some people would like to lead us or want people to believe.
Hmmm..... here's the thing. People are not that independent. They learn. If you've coached and mentored and found them to be the same, maybe it's you who are the constant in the equation.
I don't mean to say that kids don't have an independent will. Of course they do. But, at the same time that will is not 100% independent. If it were, your mentoring (and my teaching) would be futile.
Edited by Mikael Hasselstein