You mean people with a sense of humour?
I suspect the intention was more along the lines of "people who don't realize that different social spaces require different standards of behavior."
Humor isn't an excuse, either. The jokes that get told in my living room would make my social circle sound like awful, awful people were they shouted to each other in a park, but because we limit ourselves to environments and audiences that know us, get us, and won't be hurt by the things we say in jest, we avoid the negativity that can come from having a dark, twisted sense of humor.
The stuff I say to my wife after the friends go home is worse.
But never for a moment do I think that letting a stranger hear any of that is even close to acceptable, must less see it typed out (where all of the nuance, body language, etc. gets stripped out).
Geek circles have a bad habit of letting poor behavior slide, probably because of a desire to be a welcoming space for social misfits. Sadly, the line between that a social misfit and a jerk can be blurry, and telling them apart requires a bunch of skills that are highly negatively correlated with being a social misfit. The lack of chastisement is starting to change (see: this thread), but it's never going to be a clean process, what with overreactions, misunderstandings, and plain old different points of view.
Edit: in case it wasn't clear, the joke that the only women who play x-wing are ones who had a sugar daddy buy them the models was the bit that should probably be kept to a private space.
Edited by WickedGrey
