Is it normal in table top games for people to hate the damage characters? (I'm often accused of being the reason the GM will drop a Rancor on the group.)
So I’m kind of new to table top games. Edge is the first I've ever played. In most of the games I play, when given the choice, I’ll play a damage class. So even before our first game the veteran DnD guy in the group accused me of being a min maxing murder hobo. I had to look up what murder hobo meant to know it didn't apply to my character. Backstory aside, my character is a Mandolorian; combat proficiency is kind of what they do.
Anyway fast forward a few dozen sessions. I still get grief for being damage oriented. In a previous session we came across these guys trying to break into a place that we were guarding, I spoke up “Ooh can I go first?” because I wanted to try something and the guy across from me drops his pen and says “well I guess this encounters over.” So I said “fine I’ll go last” everyone rushed into combat. Once it was my turn I tried a leadership check to get them to surrender (failed of course). So I get a speech from pen guy about letting the group know that I’m going to try talking next time. It’s hard to let people know what you want to do when you’re shamed out of taking a turn.
So is this kind of stuff normal? I see a lot of posts complaining about high damage characters so I figure it’s something I’ll just have to deal with. Or do I just have someone in my group that likes to push buttons?