I was assuming that the "main player" was equivalent with the "active player"; that is, you are only considered the "main player" when it is actually your turn. As such, some of the alien powers would only work when you are on offense (you are the active player) and not defense. As such, there is only ever one "main player."
However, one of the variants (I forget which), references "main players", suggesting there can be more than one main player at once. Is it possible we made a mistake and a main player is anyone involved in combat that is not an ally? That is, both the offensive player and defensive player are "main players."
Any help to clarify this is appreciated, as so many of the alien powers only work when you are the "main player."