When exactly do you load your list when your opponent joins the table? Lately I've tried to give my opponent the benefit of the doubt and load my list as soon as I start up the game. Sometimes I feel like I'm just setting myself up to lose the match. I'm not saying they will load a counter to my list, but it's just one of those things where I'm curious what other people do.
Do you agree with your opponent to load your list at around the same time? Obviously, loading your list first sets you up for a disadvantage.
Thoughts?