I have to admit that for being a game (a good one) based on Star Wars, the space combat indeed is one of the weakest mechanics of the game. My experience with the game is that single crewed fast star fighters suck when compared to multy-crewed ships like the YT-2400.
And yes, sadly enough, being an awesome pilot does not make the difference at all in space combat. It gives a plus sure, but no more. If you for example compare what a fully trained marauder + vibro ax (or a soldier + heavy blaster rifle) can do in personal combat to what a fully trained pilot can do with a X-wing in space combat... The marauder (or the ranged monster) will make the difference, the pilot will not.
With this I am not saying I am in favor of one or the other, but it is really discriminatory.