It's pretty clear this had turned into a debate between the people want to keep the game fun for everyone, and the people primarily concerned with winning. Neither side will convert the other.
Its people that want to keep the game fun for themselves at the expense of others and people concerned with playing to the best of their abilities within the rules.
I agree that neither side will convert the other, but the two sides can at least cooperate and be civil and rational and not call for people to be banned from gaming venues for a move they pulled while not nice, was perfectly legal. The best we can hope for is that both sides can both agree the game is awesome, and we each enjoy it in our own ways