Good one, but the term "fighter jock" is a real one.I can do one better than pro. A guy told me that was an "X-wing jock".
Was he on a horse?
My dad, a preacher, has a phrase: "Show me that you love me, and you can do anything you want to to me."
I think showing respect and kindness to fellow players is important, because it will allow you to help them become better players. In fact, this is the main motivation I think for people being d-bags in game stores: they don't want serious competition because this is the only thing they're really good at, so they try to make other players feel inferior to them in the hopes that they give up on trying to become good.
At least, this is my theory. And I think it's a good one.
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The theory is strong with you. I feel I need another "doh!
oops" moment here as I didn't connect "X-Wing Jock" with "Fighter Jock" and went straight to a little guy in a brightly coloured top riding a horse. Oops!
Back to your theory, people do tend to put others down to make themselves feel superior. Such people tend to be insecure and in need of being, at least in their eyes, better than others. Little realizing that winning at X-Wing doesn't make up for other failures, whether real or imagined.
You'll appreciate this:
"If I conquered the world, but did not have love, I am nothing"
The ability to win at games is insignificant compared to the sheer joy that can be had from making another person smile, and/or laugh. Making someone feel better about themselves is worth more than having others make you feel good about yourself. Or to put it another way "there's more happiness in giving than receiving"
Agree completely. I don't mind someone saying they are good at something, maybe even bragging a bit after some awesome combo/ maneuver/amazing alpha strike etc. But when you start putting other people down is where I say "have a nice day" and leave. I will say though, that I wish this attitude was only found in playing X-wing. People feel they have to always be right in real life too, which is much worse.