SO I don't want to be a nark, but I do have a thing about rules. Games makers make rules for a reason, so why don't people just follow them? Annoyingly FFG have a section in the rules FAQ that they call "competitive play". It says when playing in tourneys you have to be strict to the rules. Well this is as much as saying "when you are not in a tourney you can take liberties and cheat a bit".
Example 1:
My best buddy introduced me to xwing a few months back, mostly so he could practice beating me at it before tournaments!! When measuring moving his ships he used to happily wave around his range ruler and grin "yeah im er, just measuring to see if there are any target locks about??..lol" Explaining that the rebels get to have a bit of a cheat there. A week or so ago I pointed out to him the FAQ about target locks - if you measure one and it IS in range you HAVE to target lock that ship. He now behaves himself but tells me he does miss having a bit of a cheat with the ruler.
Example 2:
Im playing x-wing on vassal. Ok so I am not in a tourney but I do want people to play fairly. My opponent sticks on all his ships fire arcs at once. Works out who can shoot who then starts shooting. I complain and he tells me that all his ships are at same pilot skill (PS4) so he can do that. I know from the FAQ that he is supposed to do his ships one at a time.
Example 3:
Also on vassal, my opponent sticks on his Target Lock range finder and then says, hmm, I will target Academy pilot 1. Whereas I know he is supposed to decide and nominate his "victim" first and then see if the TL is in range.
I guess my question is, do you pull people up on the target lock rules or not? I never mind if I lose a game (I learn loads from those games), but I always play to win as competitively as poss, in a friendly way. I would prefer consistency on rules..