About the arguments being repeated, the thread itself is an iteration of many other ones asking the same thing...
But then, now is an interesting time to revisit it, as Nerekhall is out and has the influence mechanic that addresses some of these issues. You could probably house rule some retrofitting using these mechanics for older quests too.
In the given example, maybe there's a choice between Frederick attacking the players, or the Overlord getting to re-inforce an extra monster group or bring a different lieutenant in. It would still favour the Overlord of course, unless you did it random/blind like some of the Nerekhall quests.