I think things have gone a little off the rails, here. I'm not a moderator, fellas, and the faceless nature of the webz leaves us all prone to wild misunderstandings and unintended chaos and confusion. Let's acknowledge that Dante's life is personally effected by this, and that TBS actually did hit a nerve.
There are many words and phrases in the english language that are part of the world of slang. Many of them have their beginnings in negative circumstances. I always point to the "rule of thumb" as a working example. This was a legal reference that established that a man could not beat his wife or children with any stick possessing a girth or circumference larger than the largest part of his thumb.
If we all spent conscious thought wandering around everyday previewing every word that came out of our mouths and checking for offense, we'd be...Canadian. ... See what I did there?
So, if you want to work out your differences and keep this community healthy, then do so. This is a public forum, after all. Let's just leave all of the poop-flinging to the Politicos...